Introduction to Adoption Training We appreciate that if you are thinking about adoption, there is a lot to consider which is why we run monthly introduction to adoption training sessions. The sessions last for two hours each and we ask that anyone who wishes to apply to adopt attends this session. In this session we … Continue reading “Events”→ Learn more
As we move towards longer days and hopefully sunnier weather, I wanted to wish you all a very happy Easter. Although many of our family and friends are still being impacting by Covid, it does feel that we are slowly and gradually adapting to a new normal. Following recent advice from Welsh Government , the … Continue reading “Message From Wendy – Easter 2022”→ Learn more
A partnership which places children who wait the longest for adoption in Wales has won a top UK award for its societal impact. The Adopting Together collaboration triumphed at Innovate UK’s annual Knowledge Transfer Partnership (KTP) Awards. The KTP project brought together St David’s Children Society – an adoption specialist dedicated to finding families for vulnerable children across Wales – … Continue reading “‘Adopting Together’ wins top UK award”→ Learn more
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How the Adoption Process works
Adoption is a legal process whereby you and your partner, assume the parenting of another person, be it a baby, toddler, youngster or teenager, from that persons legal or biological parents and as such it permanently transfers all responsibilities and rights from them, to you. It is intended to affect a permanent change in status.
Prospective adopters are welcomed from all walks of life, with different life experiences. The main priority is to provide homes for children which are loving, safe and stable. It is regardless of your marital status, whether you are gay, straight, trans, bisexual, a homeowner or lives in rented accommodation. It is also regardless of your nationality, age and religion. If you can offer a loving and stable home environment to a child, you will be eligible to apply.
If you are interested in adopting you could start your search with us. You will be invited to attend a preparation course, over a period of three days, to get to know more about the adoption process. When you start your home study, you will be allocated a social worker, who will visit your home, assess your living arrangements and obviously ask you a lot of questions, such as finances, health and relationships. They will also want to spend time with your family, the social services will regularly be in contact with you throughout the process but there is no need to worry as the purpose of this is to put together a report which will go to the adoption panel.
How Long Does Adoption Take?
It can take up to six months before you go to the adoption panel. The panel consists of a wide range of people such as adopters, social workers and other field experts. You will be asked further questions, based upon the report drawn up by your social worker. If all goes well and you are approved then it is basically a waiting game until a child is matched to you. You will be contacted now and again but nothing can move on until the right match is found.
When a match is found it is vitally important that you are 100% sure. You must use the information you receive about the child, to make the best decisions for you and your family. If you have any questions and or doubts, speak to your social worker and be honest about any concerns. If a potential profile is not what you had envisaged you must say no, and that is OK.
Meeting the Family for the First Time
When your child comes home, as with every other new parent, things can feel quite overwhelming. This is normal and a natural adjustment to your new home life will slowly take place. It will take time for all immediate family members to adjust to the new family arrangements with adopted children.
It is advised that for the first few weeks you keep the child from meeting any other people; you should allow them plenty of time to bond with you adjust to their new surroundings, it is vitally important that they feel totally safe and secure in those early introductory weeks. Introduce your family and friends gradually over a period of time.
Lifelong support is given to your family throughout the whole adoption process from before you adopt a child to post-adoption support.
Why adopt with St David’s Children Society?
If you are looking to adopt a child in Wales then St. David’s Children Society should be your first point of contact. We have helped place nearly 2000 children for adoption and cover all areas of Wales. We are members of the National Adoption Service and work with many voluntary and other adoption agencies across Wales.
Interested in adopting? Contact us today for more information.
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